Month: September 2016

The Wedding Reception

It’s a scorching afternoon in Singapore and we’re out at the Fort Canning Hotel to celebrate SL & Sam’s Registration of Marriage, when I turned to Ben and proclaimed that I wouldn’t want to entertain a ballroom full of guest after our wedding ceremony. Being innately introverted, I’ve always chosen to shun the crowds, always choosing to stay on the sidelines when forced to attend events. The Ritz Carlton Millenia, where we’re staying for our wedding, was an obvious choice for a dinner location. It’s reputed to have one of Singapore’s best dinner buffet, with the wide variety of seafood and superb service. Situated in the lobby, the Colony had the perfect space for our intimate dinner. Sliding wall to ceiling mirrored doors and partitions carefully designed by the award-winning New York based Tony Chi, provide the comfort and ambiance we had desired. Sitting a group of 20 was no easy feat, couple that with varying groups of people from our lives could have proven disastrous, but it was a success. The conversations on the table …

Table Conversations

Earlier this month, the “stars” aligned and I’ve finally managed to catch up with 2 of my closest friends from University – Aloy & YL. Over coffee, we talked about everything under the sun – well, almost. Plato, Socrates, gossips (not really) about where some of our course-mates went, our Professors and some impressionable topics that they taught. Upon returning home, I kept thinking about those conversations that we had. It occurred to me that it was probably the most intellectual conversation that I’ve had with my friends in a long time. It has always been about mindless things and I hardly get anything meaningful from it. The differences between my friends are drastically different. In example, lunch with XT would be mindless conversations about spending crazy amounts of money on houses, food and our little monsters (i.e her nephews and my step-brother). Perhaps for many, that is a meaningful conversation, but for it, it feels empty. Ohh, it’s such a shame… That we don’t talk anymore. We don’t talk anymore, like we used to do. …

Blog Your Heart | Sept ’16 Edition

I’ve been a huge fan of Stephanie Howell’s BYH for a while now and decided to do a September edition of it. Here are some “rules” for the post: Blog whatever is authentic. Whatever is truly on your mind and in your heart. It can be serious, silly, short, long. [NOTE: No one said it has to be serious. But it should be authentic.] No judging allowed no snarky comments, no making fun, no passive agressive digs.If you are going to read the blogs linked below, don’t be mean. Nothing here is whining, though I can’t help it if you perceive it that way. It’s me honestly sharing my feelings. if you feel that it’s whining, then you don’t have to read. 🙂 If you BYH, link back here in the comments. I always read and comment on every single post. Feel free to use the graphic above. Just make sure to link back to me. 5 months after my wedding, I am sick of people asking me when I would be planning to have …

Hope, wish & dreams

  “The very least you can do in your life is figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope. Not admire it from a distance, but live right in it, under its roof.”   Back in April, I spotted this beautiful quote by Barbara Kingsolver on the web and I had fallen in love with it. These last 5 months has been a time of contemplation and reflection for me. How could life get so overwhelming to the point where I have allowed my dreams to fade? Why is life just simply dragging me along as if I’m on a float being moved in a lazy river. “The Universe is always working on our behalf but not always working on our time.” – Gabrielle Bernstein We don’t know when we would be called home to the Lord, but we can always try our best to make sure that we do what makes us happy. So I’ve made the choice to restart my life and do what …